Would your style be the same if you weren’t posting on social media?
That’s such a good question. I’ve actually thought about this — am I dressing for the camera or for myself?
Right now, I’m proud to say I’m dressing for myself. But that hasn’t always been the case. There were definitely times when I dressed for the camera — especially when it was part of a collaboration or job. I always try to choose brands that really feel like me, but sometimes it just doesn’t work out because of sizing or deadlines. So yes, I still dress for the camera occasionally. But when I can avoid it — I do. Because I want to feel comfortable and like myself.
It’s been a journey, especially on social media. But I’ve reached a place where I feel like I’ve really found my style. And honestly, I’d rather grow slowly and stay authentic, than grow fast by putting on a costume or hiding who I am. I want to be myself through the whole process. And if that means growth takes longer, so be it. The right people will stay, or they’ll find me eventually.
It’s what feels natural, and I think that’s why I feel so connected to my community. That’s what I want most.
Do you have any advice on how to shop consciously?
Yes! It all starts with awareness. In German, the words for consciousness and awareness are basically the same — but I think there’s a real difference. Conscious shopping, for me, is about bringing awareness into the act of shopping.
Ask yourself: Why am I shopping right now?
Do I really need something? Or do I just want it?
And either answer is valid! Wanting something is totally fine — you just have to be aware of the reason behind it.
Because shopping is emotional — at least for me. Sometimes I shop because I’m sad, or bored, or excited, or inspired. It’s fine to shop when you’re feeling something — but I want to be aware of what’s driving it.
Like, I recently caught myself doom-scrolling on Vestiaire. I added a bunch of things to my wish list, then realized: “Wait… I don’t even want any of this.” I was just in the mood to scroll — not on social media this time, but on a shopping platform. It was just a way to self-soothe, I guess.
Even going out to shops can be like that — sometimes it’s not about buying anything, it’s just about touching fabric, trying things on, being in that space. And if something really speaks to me in that moment, I’ll get it. But I try to check in with myself before I buy.
Take a breath in the fitting room and ask:
Why am I here? Do I want this? Do I need this? How do I feel right now?
And if it all feels aligned, then it’s okay to buy it.
Do you have a specific outfit or item that holds a special memory for you?
Yes — it’s not one item exactly, but a fabric: knitwear. Knitwear is a big thing in my family. My grandmother used to knit for us when we were kids and she even sold the knits to a shop at one point.
Some of my best memories are tied to those sweaters. I was the firstborn in my family, so I’d wear it first, then my sister, then my cousins — we have all these photos of us growing up in the same knitwear pieces.
Even now, my mom knits too. I still have a few of her sweaters that are 10 years old, and I love them. That’s the thing about hand-knit pieces — they last forever. They’re full of love and care.
Wearing one of those sweaters — especially in winter — honestly feels like a textile hug. Like I’m being hugged by my mom.
That’s so sweet.
It really is.
Thanks so much for joining us!
Thank you! This was so much fun. I could talk for hours.
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